Like Water ‘gate’ before it, their phrase has sparked a whole genre of __________ Matters. And while I disagree with the Black Lives premise, their phrase sparked me this morning to write about something that really does matter to me, Touches. Touches are actions that define what or who is important to you. Physical touches, politically and legally incorrect in today’s EEOC environment, gently let people know you notice them. I often joke in my sexual harassment workshop that

What if you obtain a long shot personal goal that conflicts with a higher priority relationship goal? Obviously you prioritize your goals and choose the higher priority. Obviously though I didn’t, and find myself digging out of self-inflicted hole. Good job coach! The personal goal had to do with the ability to perform and came out of the universe of God moments. When it arrived un-expectantly, I was “blinded by the light.” My joy totally overpowered my judgement involving th